The Thrill of Orgasm Control

For me, it’s not delaying it that was such a joy.

It was simply having my pet give up that level of control.

While he would certainly have enjoyed coming more often, he didn’t become the desperate ball of need some men seem to when they are controlled.

I have heard several (male) fans of orgasm control/denial state that they become more attentive, and have seen members of both sexes decry this.

For the record, my pet didn’t become more attentive. This was a good thing.

When I first encountered orgasm denial on the web it was put in such nutty, harsh terms I was baffled. Now I suspect that frustrated men wrote the extreme stuff I read.

It is only recently that I’ve been able to really get a mental grip on how exciting surrendering or controlling a slave’s orgasms might be.

My g/f goes further than orgasm denial (and I LOVE HER for it!) She has forbidden me unauthorized ERECTIONs and then gets great pleasure in teasing me into breaking this rule and thereby earn a severe beating.

I am 45, she is 26. I guess this age difference accentuates for me the wonderful humiliation and shame in my submission to Her.

Orgasm denial for me starts off with increased performance level, especially when She ‘forces’ me to eat Her sweetgrass pie. I begin to love the taste of Her pussy and ass more than ever before, and just can’t get enough. But it gets me into more and more trouble.

My g/f and I have this morning routine that just about guarantees me a daily beating. I always wake up first and must awaken Her by kissing Her asscheeks and licking Her crack until She awakens. I am supposed to perform this daily duty without getting that forbidden hard on. And guess what’s the first thing She checks out upon waking up???

After a week or so of orgasm denial I become obsessed with sex during more and more of my waking hours. She catches me staring at panty ads in print advertisements, or tight-bottomed chicks walking on the street in their faded jeans. And of course, the ‘No Hard On’ Rule becomes violated more frequently and I earn more beatings. She says I should be able to control my cock and if not, She has to control it for me.

Eventually I lose the last escape from sex-obsession that even sleep provides (after about 3 weeks). My dreams become sweet torture, and can’t help dreaming about sex nightly. So eventually there is no escpape from the torture of orgasm denial, awake or asleep!

I love being starved for sex and orgasms. I love even more that She is the one doing it to me … knowing exactly how it affects me. And when I am finally allowed to cum, it’s only within the context of a humiliating scene.

Sometimes, I’ll be allowed penetration. She’ll mount me and control the pace. My g/f will spit on my face repeatedly and laugh at my hunger. As part of my enslavement She will make me repeat self-humiliating phrases over and over, like a mantra, until I explode. This part happens whether I’m allowed orgasm through sex or masturbation.

Mr g/f is a psychologist and believes that repeated verbal affirmations of my submisison and hunger for Her is like auto-hypnosis. And that even though I know beforehand that this is Her plan, the result (my further enslavement) is unavoidable.

In a sexually aroused state the mind becomes extremely open to hypnotic suggestions.

If I’m not allowed penetration, then She’ll pick another humiliating way for me to get a release. The humiliating verbal affirmations part is still a required part of the release. I’m sure the readers can think of many disgusting examples, and chances are I’ve been forced into a few of those already….

I wish my fellow male-subs the sweet agony of full, blue balls .. under the control of a woman who laughs at your suffering. What heaven.

Usually when I read something along these lines I’m inclined to feel a little skeptical. Has the guy actually experienced this or is he sharing one of his fantasies?

Never any way to know.

Yours I’m inclined to believe. Possibly because it was so well told and arousing that after reading it I found it nearly impossible to keep my mind on what I should be doing here at work.

i am a 63 yr old cock slave to my mistress - i have been made chaste by her for 14 yrs, tease/denied, orgasm cuntrolled,cock caged cb2000 with her sole keyholder and determinatress of my release i am collared, chained and c/dressed and permitted to wank ONLY WHEN “SHE” says !! she has sexual “friends” and i work to pay her mortgage and am chained the 2nd b/rm to flog to “work” for mistress - i am obedient, loyal and greatful