Gender, Me and Kink
» Gender Follies , » My Inner Life
This has been dimly in the rear of my mind but today it really struck me.
A snootie cutie, the way I like them (An exceedingly rare early gay magazine.)
Outside of power exchange and sadomasochism my affectional and erotic alignment is toward androgynous people. Particularly gay male who are anywhere from gently femme to the sort of screaming queen that aggravate most people. A limp wrist can make me limp and pixie dust dazzles me.
Within BDSM, as a bottom, I don’t feel any - other than maybe transitorily and in any direction - bias. Bodily configuration, gender performance: all are fine with me. Even my distance from strongly masculine men vanishes. All I need is for someone to genuinely want to control and hurt me.
Not sure what to make of this but it certainly isn’t a problem.
