How Do You Milk a Man?
My stats show that an awful lot of you continue to come here hoping to learn about male milking via prostate massage. This is an attempt to round up a few pointers for your or her pleasure.
Some months back I was curious as to how the man’s mood might interfere with prostate milking. On The Fetish Forums ShadeDiva said:
It tends to be a bodily function sort of thing.
You don’t really have to be in the mood for it to work. In fact from a sadistic standpoint, that makes it even better if they are fighting it lol.
You don’t really have to be *in the mood* for it to work. In fact from a sadistic standpoint, that makes it even better if they are fighting it lol.
Regardless of state of mind a man’s body can be made to betray him into cumming without orgasm. Such an intimate manipulation of a guy’s body must be one of the most humbling, objectifying practices in D/s. Hence the visitors wanting to learn more (or read pervy stories).
Prostatitis.Org has a description and diagram:
The prostate is a gland situated underneath the bladder (the bladder neck) and is perforated by the first portion of the urethra.
On Orgasm Denial BadBob offers a very detailed overview:
No matter what motivations or desired outcomes bring people to this practice, the basic facts of the male physiology don’t change.
Ms. Christine - who has enormous experience with her husband David - writes:
For full prostate and seminal vesicles massage, having him lay face down over my knees gives me greater control. The massage is done by inserting my well lubricated fingers, or sometimes a dildo, in his anus. I have a pack of disposable rubber gloves which allows me to be theatrical and clinical in the process. Rubber gloves should be used to protect the anal tissue from fingernails.
I don’t know if this bit of lore is true:
For what it is worth, Sudafed has the side effect of increasing production of seminal fluid. This is from an article about collecting sperm from men who have physical problems preventing normal collection methods.
Milking isn’t always about manipulating the prostate. The penis can be repeately massaged but never taken to the point of orgasm. Probably only for the very masochistic man.
The ‘milkee’ is brought to the brink of orgasm and then stimulation is stopped. After two or three minutes, it is resumed and, once again, terminated just prior to ejaculation. After a few of these cycles (how many - mileage varies), the ejaculate simply flows out without any pulsations of any sort.
Don’t we submissive men have colorful imaginations?
I am keen to know about the cummings and goings (so to speak) of milking a man, i.e. repeatedly masturbating him way beyond his limits until he is screaming at you to stop, his glans is bright red and glistening and incredibly sensitive when you touch it, and he has practically ripped his arms out of their sockets because you have bound him to the chair or bed and he would do anything to make you stop. He is milked completely dry and yet you lick your rubber glove and prepare to make him cum for the 12th time…
Beware of unsafe myths. A question:
A few months ago I read something that said it is possible to milk a male of his semen by tieing up the balls with rope, tight, REAL TIGHT, and this will cause the sperm to leak out. But is this safe??? Or can you damage the testes by tieing them up very tightly??? Any info. would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
Just tying isn’t enough. There has to be some manipulations of something else. Of course, if the tying is done over a long period with lots of tugging and yanking and binding, then maybe.
As for damaging the testes, yes I’d say this could be a danger. But also look at the rest of the regional anatomy. Scrotum, testicular capsules, vas deferens … tying the balls can be great fun for everyone involved, but when they start to go from “purple” to “alarmingly dark purple”, I’d say it’s time to start loosening things up a bit and changing the focus of the evening. Sitting there waiting for semen to drip out while gangrene sets in is not your best way to go, in my opinion.
A couple of handy tips:
Second, the massage is just a light rubbing on the nub of the prostate, not pushing. If you hit the spot right, he should be able to feel it right to the very tip of his penis (I do) and perhaps just a light rubbing at the base of his penis while you do that will help to get it the rest of the way out.
And, if you don’t want him to feel anything while you do this, you can always hold a bag of ice up against his genitals while you do it. That takes all the feeling out of the process while you milk him. ;-)
As always your experience and expertise are solicited. I may try to follow this up later with more exotic male milking strategies.