On Penis Restriction

This is about it for my penis and me (should be a song title shouldn’t it?). I probably will say something about chastity and post a cringinly bad erotic sketch.

People often read into things what they want to see. Ask a semiotician. For me this is about my body temporarily being unable to express itself normally. I won’t say what why it appeals to Alexandra. She’ll leave a comment or not. I enjoy good comments but if you are going to write to my that “My Mistress locked up my cock for 879 weeks,” then you’ve missed the point.

I found a note from several weeks ago:

“Yesterday she … expressed an interest in erection prevention.

“Her interest in having my erections impeded was a surprise. Before I know it she’ll become enamored of needle play. (Not likely really.)

“I was startled because she’d never expressed an interest in controlling my penis before. But much F/m penis control talk is about long-term orgasm denial. Something we aren’t (presently) interested in.

I don’t think of my penis as wicked or excessively demanding. But given my biology that she would want to control it leaves me feeling deeply slavish. “

This isn’t about enforced chastity. But my body finding its natural response to her thwarted.

I haven’t asked her but I’m assuming she likes the control and the image of my body crushing itself against something. And it would be another way to keep me in servile space. Having to wear it to work one day, say, gets into exploring longer periods of D/s that we’ve discussed but have been unable to explore. No need for a CB-Super-Duper Chastity device with all the bells and whistles.

Be it computer peripherals or bath towels when I’m thinking of acquiring something I turn to Google. Here are the three best candidates:

This evil little device will give any male a nice look of surprise

This device has the advantages of being adjustable and leaving the penis exposed for other things. Perhaps the stroke of a feather. Should work fine for penis crushing. What makes it distinctive and exciting is that within are tiny pricks. (I should note that I’m uncut, were I circumcised my feelings would probably be very different.) I like this one quite a bit. Reading this Alexandra just shakes her head and says “you would.”

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Designed as a safe replacement of the Teeth of Kali. Normally used as a long-term chastity toy. A bit fiddly but easily removed. Flaw: direct contact with the penis’s surface isn’t possible. But seeems ideal for penis crushing.

From a review:

For a while, TPE (The Power Exchange) … made a device they called “Kali’s Teeth Bracelet” … Club Fem has taken up the gauntlet with their MCD. This device is molded of a piece of fairly flexible plastic with sharp, pointed little pyramids lining the inside. It is inexpensive … and easy to fit and surprisingly comfortable to wear.

They must be redefining comfort. The biggest problem with this may be poor aesthetics. Though for the wearer I’m sure that issue vanishes quickly.

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This is inexpensive, looks effective and is easily attached and removed. The penis can be touched or stroked: perfect for erotic teasing. The metal bands probably prevent penis crushing play.

From the Stockroom catalog:

Will tend to limit erections, and prevent orgasms … These cages will not interfere with urination, but we can’t say for sure whether they would stand up to a bath or shower, and we don’t officially recommend these or any chastity toy for long-term use.

Hardly an exhaustive listing. The quantity of male penis confinement devices - admittedly aimed at long term chastity - continues to surprise me.

My old fantasies had me locked in a constricting leather pouch that prevented a full erection. They are about but rather costly.

Which one(s) will I buy? Depends on her response. Maybe I’ll go back to looking. For tactile erotic teasing the penis must be partly exposed. For crushing the confining device probably can’t be made of metal (or the Locking Cock cage might be my first choice).

Whatever device(s) we choose - all three? - I’m thrilled that Alexandra likes the idea of confining me thus. Certainly a way to leave me feeling very lowly.

Penis constriction can be used at any time. But I’ve often had this image of her keeping me aroused. Kissing and touching me. Mixed with the tenderness is pinching, hair pulling - whatever amuses her. And smiling at me with sinister serenity as she enjoys my limitation and her control.

Often I end these entries with a question. This one is directed only to dominant women. Are there forms of male genital control that you enjoy outside of standard chastity scenarios?

Would anyone tell me which he or she thinks I should buy? Or point me to another confining device. Remember this is a form of play between two lovers. Don’t direct me to the CB-Umpty Dumpty.