Penis Leashing
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A spate of notes about male genitalia and D/s will probably ensue.
Partly because thinking about something publicly helps me achieve a cleaner understanding of what is passing through my mind. I’ll look at what I’ve written and go, “Now do you really think that?”
Purging myself of the images, just for now, seems a sane course.. I’ve found that excessive repetition of an imagined experience often wears it out. When Alexandra is back I can talk to her about it and maybe explore it. Right now I’d rather be in bed asleep.
Many of us would write hymns to our genitals, the happiness they’ve sent our way. Part of what baffles me is that it was such a long time before my penis and testicles appeared in my S&M daydreams.
It wasn’t that they’d been excised. Orgasms, erections, genital punishment never passed through my mind. The web taught me about genital torment and control. Mostly I just went “ugh!” Eventually my masochism seduced me. There were nights when I couldn’t clear the images from my mind.
Art by Rhodes about whom I know nothing.
I ask myself, Richard, why do these practices move you so deeply?
Masculinity I’ll confess to. But not the macho identity that - hiding insecurities, secret fears? - that can turn on itself. I love androgynous people: no silly gender nonsense crowding my mind. Gender qualities are lovely but nothing to create antagonism. Sexist stereotypes are ugly.
But to the meat of the matter at hand.
Most genital leashing uses the traditional cock ring: penis and testicles are both leashed at the same time. If there’s a part of the brain where the grovel response lives images like this make mine glow brightly:
Drawing by Iain from Woman Worship.
Is it ever really done?
There are mechanical problems: if bound when erect the tether would fall off when the penis is less tumescent. If bound when limp would it be too tight? Probably not for short term play. Or the restriction might prevent erection. Bet it would work better attached near the base than just below the glans.
Oh, I can see the risk. No more than other D/s practices. You do these things with someone you can trust or not at all.
Perhaps the appeal of cock leashing is the instant omnipotence it gives the one in control. An effect of anatomy: not male vs. female.
Comments
Your comment, that the appeal of cock-leashing gives an instant omnipotence is 100% correct, and the parade with the crawling slave, among other women, makes it even more thrilling to me. Mechanical problems?? I’ll ask my doctor!
Posted by: Madeleine | July 11, 2006 12:44 PM
Having my phallus leashed is incredible: it takes me deep into submissive space. It can be tricky since the darn thing likes to change size.
Testicle leashing is equally controlling and simpler.
I remember the night she connected that leash to a loop on her boot
Posted by: Richard | July 12, 2006 3:35 PM
I love leashing my penis and also when others leash it for me, be they male, female or machine. Anyone up for a group leashing session? I’ll bring the leashes!!
Posted by: Tom Cock | April 23, 2008 5:01 AM
My ex-wife used to leash me by the cock and balls with it held tight at the base. It was a leash would make me wear with it easy for her to get ahold of around my belt. At home she would require me to cook and clean with it on and give it a sharp tug when ever she thought I was being diligent enough. Today my wife often keeps me locked in a CB-3000 and it drives me to properly serve her.
Posted by: cb3000 | April 24, 2008 8:05 PM
I love this topic, and had just one experience that I can recall. I paid a professional dominatrix to engage me in costume play with something called Penis Panties that I found in some kinky catalog. Your cock and balls were stuffed into the pocket and (unlike normal pants or shorts or panties) was then fully on display. So when my cock was deliciously, embarassingly stiff the shiny red vinyl shorts were sticking straight out in the most obscene and heart-poundingly humiliating way. The dominatrix wasted no time in taking advantage of that, by pulling me up the stairs by a ring at the front of the cock pouch. (She and her roommate shared the house, and their play space was in the basement.) So when I was lead up the steps it was a thrill beyond words. At the top she called to the other girl who slapped my vinyl-encased erection several times for amusement. But the best part was being led upstairs by my hard-on! Whew. Nothing better than such an obviously-needy penis suffering the very opposite of sexual satisfaction at the hands of a beautiful young female who could (if she wanted to) give me that sexual satisfaction.
Posted by: Pantywhipped | March 18, 2009 3:49 AM
from a Female perspective it’s very empowering, when I have my boyfriend on a penis leash.
He’s the sex object I don’t have to worry about what I look like is my makeup ok, did I gain weight this month.
I think it would be amazing just for one day to go shopping at the mall and see women out with their men naked being lead around on penis leashes.
Posted by: Kristy Foster | September 30, 2011 2:26 PM
I have a thin cat leash and collar that some of my lady frieds use on me. The collar goes over the top of e base of my cock and around the back top of my ballsack. It stays on whether my penis is hard or not with no restrictions on movement. They attach the leash behind my balls so they can control me whether I am walking or crawling in front of them. It works either clothed or naked. If they want to lead, they can just pull the leash around to the front. One of my friends sometimes enjoys leading by pulling the leash up tight between my balls and then looping it around the top of my sack. No matter how they do it, I really enjoy it when they leash my penis, especially when they make me go naked in fron to their girlfriends.
Posted by: John | October 27, 2011 5:07 PM