Preposterous CBT II

Been there, done that.
And I highly recommend it. :-)

I wore my Domme’s strap-on and we had missionary-style sex for as long as she could stand the orgasms. Me? I was not sexually aroused at all … it put me very deeply into object-space; I felt like a sextoy for her pleasure only.

You might be interested in the clear chastity tube at fantasy leatherworks (www.fantasyleatherworks.com/hischastity.htm). I think it might just do the trick.

I really love your blog. Keep up the great work.

Thanks for the link. Never saw this site before.

The head cage was a real jolt: it reaches back into one of the first BDSM fantasies I ever had. And the squatting stockade just makes me melt.

All too expensive for me but I was glad to take a look.

Actually, I’ve seen a couple of sites that mention this idea (no, I’ve never tried it). Usually the idea seems to be similar to a hollow dildo, sometimes combined with the idea that the wearer’s natural endowments are insufficient.

I don’t recommend the site necessarily (lots of eye candy, but tends to be overpriced), but an example can be found here: http://www.extremerestraints.com/stat/de310.html

Wonder if that material is thick enough to block most sensation.

Of course I have no idea what Alexandra might think of any of these notions.

I buy from ER. Though I usually compare three or four places and buy from whichever has the lowest price on what I’m ordering.

Thanks.

I think the answer is not in devices, but in self control. I have my husband wear the Trojan condems that come with numbing cream inside them. They are designed to help a man prolong ejaculation. On top of this I have him practice Tantric ejaculation control, and REQUIRE him to not ejaculate during sex. As motivation I use the traditional sexual punishments when he has “accidents” such as ball kicking, hot wax on his penis and icy-hot hand jobs. It takes some time to train a man in this way but it seems to be effective as long as you keep the man in a chastity lock at all times except during sex.

That kind of trained ability to deny yourself certainly sounds erotic.

I’ll own up that I have strong desires for bondage. Having the sheath make it impossible even if I did want to has a strong appeal to me.

Many thanks.

I’ve heard, not experienced, of the use of a desensitizing cream on the cock, then the guy donning two, or even three condoms… that way he’s numb, and she’s not.

The problem I see is once it’s numb, it’s probably not going to stay very hard.

Besides, my wife prefers to see me struggle to contain my orgasm until she’s ready for me to have it. If I was simply ‘going through the motions’ I think it would tke a lot of the edge off for her.

My wife has me to tape myself up with ace bandages from base over the head and back down to base several times criss-crossing at the head then a strip of tape around & around the base to secure the 8 to 10 strips that went over the head then finaly she has me put a condom on so as not to scratch or tear up her sweet honey hole.I can promise you that in the past 12 years I have only had one accident which I paid for dearly. Without the tape I can’t last 5 min. With the tape I’m at her mercy to be used for her pleasure. When being taped you may think you’re hard & horrny, but after doing all you can to get off with no luck You realize you’re F**ked and after she is finished with you and she allows you to take the tape off it hurts even though your precum has soften the sticky tape & normaly I’ve lost my erection although I’m still super horrny. Then my wife teases me about thouht you wanted some pussy oh did he go limp did that bad ol tape hurt you & make you go limp.

I’m a part-time chastised male in that until further notice my Curve Chastity device is useless as I can get it off with little trouble whenever I want to. But, She’s ordered the points of intrigue that’s sposed to fix that.

The point is, I have been forced on many occasions to fuck both my Mistress and my Master with their strapons and it’s humiliating and frustrating as all get out. The worst is having your cock all taped with bondage tape then a strapon put on you and being forced to fuck her for all you’re worth while you get no stimulation at all.

There was the one time my Mistress bound me up and put a strapon on me while I was asleep, rode me until she came several times, took pictures of me chained like that and left me there to awaken wondering why I was wearing her strapon!

I remember reading a vanilla book about WWI. A guy was on an evacuation train with a bunch of horney nurses. They all wanted him and of course he couldn’t take care of them all. They wrapped cord around the base of his cock to keep him hard and then they all raped him. Very painful for him. I really think that may have been the thing that turned me onto BSDM and submission even though I was a teen at the time.

Once I was tied to the bed, and my Mistress put a rubber band on my cock just above my balls. My cock grew larger than normal size, because the blood could flow in but not out.

She mounted me and thrust herself up and down on my cock. The sensation I felt was pain. It hurt mem every time she thrust herself on my cock. She saw the pain in my face, and enjoyed fucking me even more.

Afterwards, she cut the rubber band off with a pair of scissors.

She slipped both legs of a pair of very fine silky soft pantyhose over my cock pulling them down tightly and tucked them under my balls then she took a second pair of pantyhose, very thick ones and slid both legs over my already
nylon covered cock. She took the scrunchy off her pony tail and slipped it over my balls to hold her pantyhose in place on my cock and made me fuck her with her pantyhose tightly slipped over my cock. Didn’t feel a thing except the occassional rubbing of her nylons against each other on my shaft and balls. Tickled a little bit but did not allow enough stimulation for me to ejaculate. Threatened that if I came in her good pantyhose I would be in for a penis plug and T&D session so severe I would regret my sickly sperm mess for months locked in my chastity belt and teased by her rubbing her nylon covered legs against my balls while locked inside my belt with no release.

Another one of her favorite games is to drain all my cum out of me by stroking me to climax as many times as possible over a period of and hour or so and then when she is convinced that I no longer have any cum or ejaculate to release, I’m completely spent, she goes down on me and gives me the most sensual, soft, slow and tender blow job knowing that there is nothing left for me to release. She will keep at it sometimes for hours. Allowing me to settle down with little breaks in between, only to start her oral teasing all over again when I can achieve a semi hard on. She even continues to suck, kiss, nibble, lick and stroke lightly when I’m soft whispering sweetly and giggling in her sexy lingerie, verbally teasing me about why my useless cock has not cum in her mouth despite how sweet she is being. This drives me crazy and leaves me exhausted with desperation since I have nothing left in me to ejaculate, knowing this, she has a tremendously wicked time at the expense of my intense physical frustration at not being able to cum for her sweet and very tender oral loving. My penis quite often becomes hyper sensitive and her oral ministrations, regardless of how gentle and sweet, cause my super sensitive shaft pain. My balls ache desperately with absolutely no hope for release because they are bone dry from her earlier draining.

She loves to torment me by sending me off to work for the day with a pair of her silkiest pantyhose tightly slipped and wrapped over my cock and balls. One of her scrunchies holding them in place over my cock and balls. I am not allowed to remove her nylons from my cock for any reason whatsoever and must wait to relieve myself until I get home so she can remove her nylons from my cock herself.

Sometimes she will sit on the couch wearing her nylons and heels and trap my erection between her silky soft nylon covered thighs, watching me get hard and throb between her gently caressing legs as we watch TV but never allows me release as I sit there desperately wanting to cum on her legs. Her warmth and softness pressed against me as she ignores my obvious need for release between her incredibly sheer, soft and sexy legs.

After a couple of hours like that she may decide to allow me a release or simply lock me back into my chastity belt for the night, leaving me to dream about how wonderful the release could have been for her had she allowed me to cum while rubbing and pumping myself between her sweet legs blowing against and all over her silky soft pantyhose and warm thighs and legs.

Whenever my wife feels in the mood for penetrative sex, I am released from my CB3000 and have to wear a strap-on. It is quite small internally, and the only way to get it on is if you are completely flaccid. A good amount of lube is also needed and then the thick sheath portion is squeezed flat before the penis is introduced into it. The resulting vacuum sucks the soft penis inside. The straps are snapped on and I’m ready to go.

There are NO pleasurable sensations for me and she can have me go on for as many orgasms as she wants.

If and when I get anything at all is by prostate massage. She has me take several self-administered enemas and then I have to get up on the coffee table on my hands and knees with a saucer under my penis (still in the CB3000). She uses a latex glove and vigorously massages my prostate for five minutes exactly. Whatever drips out in that five minutes is all I get, and I have to lick the saucer clean afterwards.

Over time, she has become very adept at this and knows just how and where to stroke and prod, and how much pressure to use. I usually drip out a puddle about 2 inches in diameter by the time my 5 minutes are up.

There are NO pleasurable ejaculatory/orgasmic associated with this, just a feeling of being drained and of a reduction in internal “pressure.”

Stang’s comment about being drained and then stimulated while “dry” recalls the crucial snuff scene in Octave Mirabeau’s classic novel, “Chinese Torture Garden” : The prisoner/victim is tied down while a skilled, beautiful but unsmiling woman gives him an endless hand-job and repeated, increasingly pain orgasms, until he ejaculates blood and dies in agony.