The Other Kind of Milking
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Several years ago I was making an effort to meet a dominant man (really I was trying to meet as many different kinds of people as my multifarious sexuality enjoys but those stories aren’t for here).
I heard from a man who used his real name and told me where he worked (at one of the nearby universities). Smart and articulate he seemed a huge step above the narrowly fetishistic or appallingly arrogant men who’d written me.
He wanted to ‘milk’ me. This isn’t the kind of milking often practiced in F/m relationship. He wanted to masturbate me. After my orgasm he would continue. Orgasms or not it makes for a fiercely sore penis.
Then he wrote me he’d decided he had decided to explore being submissive. He wasn’t the kind of guy who made me want to be dominant so our correspondence ceased.
I was reminded of this when rereading Pinay Domina’s entry “What is the opposite of O-denial?”
Her lover had read of a Domme who’d ordered he slave to masturbate repeatedly. Pinay agreed to explore the idea:
This 3rd time didnt make him smile. It took a long time before he could cum. After this he told me he’s a bit sore. He said if he could rest at least an hour before he masturbates again. I told him he has no choice.
Myself, I don’t know that I’d be up to it. Inflicting pain on yourself is much tougher than receiving it at another’s hand. Really, I just don’t know how long it would I’d need to come up with those five orgasms. Anybody got some spare Cialis?
I don’t remember hearing of a woman being ordered to massage her clitoris repeatedly until it is sore. So it once again make me think that the male genitals are focused on in a way in F/m relationships that women’s are not in M/f couples.
Traditional M/f milking � OK I’ve had fantasies � But I’ve never been able to decide how I’d really respond to it. But that is a topic for another entry.



Comments
Oops… Heeheehee. Well, he’s mine. I can do what I want! :p
Posted by: Pinay D | April 28, 2005 10:05 AM
Forcing someone to rub their penis till it gets sore? Boring. To me, at least…
There are so many ways to make a cock sore, telling him to do it is like missing all the fun!
Posted by: Alexandra | April 28, 2005 11:12 AM
“I don’t remember hearing of a woman being ordered to massage her clitoris repeatedly until it is sore.”
I’ve often come across the idea of making a woman masturbate repeatedly—either to orgasm after orgasm, or to constantly stay on the brink of orgasm.
Either way, I can’t imagine doing it for too long without getting really sore, whether or not that’s the ultimate goal. g
Posted by: D. | April 28, 2005 4:41 PM
I can’t pretend I know anything about it the clitoris’ capacities are supposed to be so much greater than the penis’. What little I’ve read is in M/f weblogs. I remember reading about frequent sessions of the woman keeping her self just shy of climax.
I guess there must be some rough stuff going on, just haven’t read about it.
Posted by: Richard | April 28, 2005 5:11 PM
I myself am made to masturbate for hours ata time .. Till the point I can’t even get an erection .. But I never get sore and if I did that would be my cue to stop LOL …
Posted by: masturbationslave | November 27, 2005 12:26 PM
Hours? One of your hands must be mighty strong by now.
I’ll confess it sounds interesting. Not that I think the idea would entertain Alexandra and I sure wouldn’t be able to do that on my own.
Posted by: Richard | November 27, 2005 5:47 PM
If you masturbate in the shower, using soap to “lubricate” yourself, never letting the lather die, bring yourself just to the point of no return, then backing off and starting again several times, you will reach a point where your penis head has lost so much outer skin layers that it is almost raw, and the slightest touch is agony—you cannot bring yourself to orgasm because of that (or at least you can’t do it more than once—the memory of the excruciating agony for the next several hours, and the very real pain experienced for several days afterwards, even when wearing comparitively soft abrasionless underwear, causes you to stop before the pain gets worse). The effect is quickened greatly if you use a bit of lace as a source of abrasion, but it only takes about 10-15 minutes with just a bar of soap.
Posted by: azraelle | January 2, 2006 2:46 PM
If you need additional abrasiveness you can use Lava soap which contains pumice.
Not that I think I could find joy in pain that arrives without the will of a sadist.
Posted by: Richard | January 2, 2006 3:32 PM
I was in a gay relationship 3 years ago and my partner introduced me to a variation of this “milking”: he would be the one milking me. It started out with one milking a day; he would put me naked on my hands and knees and then lube my penis up with vaseline. He would stroke me to orgasm (and when I came, he had me squirt into a little cup), he would then let me rest for a minute, and do it again; each time I came, I would squirt my cum into this cup. He’d repeat this process usually ten times in a row to make sure he had milked me of all my “butter.” Once my milking session was done, I would drink my own cum. We lived together for a year and soon I was up to two milkings a day (one in the morning and one at night) which meant I was induced to orgasm at least 20 times a day! And this became the norm for me but I never got a sore penis like described above; tender, maybe, but never to the point of pain.
Posted by: Boy Butter | December 15, 2007 12:11 PM
We have different kinds of orgasm as women. If i repeatedly masturbate my clitoris eventually it ceases to respond with orgasm despite being very swollen and well lubricated, there is no pain just no big O. I haven’t played with repeated vaginal masturbation but i do know that if my dom forces me to have repeated vaginal orgasms i reach a point where i am begging for him to stop and absolutely crying from the torture. It isn’t pain in the normal way but an overwhelming whole body contortion that i can no longer bear.
Posted by: dollinparadise | January 19, 2008 1:38 AM
HUMAN MALE MILKING SYSTEM
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BILL OF MATERIALS (BOM)
(THE LIST OF ITEMS NEEDED TO MAKE THIS PRODUCT)
THIS SET IS FOR ONE MALE
SEE OPTION 1 FOR MULTIPLE MALES
AND OPTION 2 FOR A LIST OF POSITIONS THAT YOU MIGHT TO BUILD SUPPORTS FOR
1 WET / DRY Vacuum cleaner OR plastic pail with lid.
TO HANDLE LIQUIDS IT MIGHT BE NICE IF THE CONTAINER WAS CLEAR SO PEOPLE CAN SEE IT FILL UP. BUT THERE ARE REASONS YOU WOULD NOT WANT TO DO THIS: STDs PRODUCE COLORED OUTPUT IF SOMEONE WERE TO BLEED I COULD BE VERY UPSETTING=====
2 motors BOTH adjustable from VERY slow (10 revolutions per minute (RPM)) OR LESS to VERY fast
GET OVERSIZED (more horsepower AND RPMs than is needed for one person) MOTORS so that when you add more males you are not REQUIRED to change the motors.
You may however want to ADD motors, see option 1 for explanation
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2 pump housings
nut to circle nearest motor) impellers so it can handle more air when the number of positions go up.
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2 Impellers (these move air, like a leaf blower or a vacuum cleaner)
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2 Y connectors
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6 vacuum hoses OR SOMETHING SIMILAR
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2 SETS OF FLEXIBLE (PLASTIC) Tubes / cylinders of different lengths and Diameters (OR PLASTIC ROLLED INTO TUBES).
CHANGES.
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2 motor speed controllers End of basics
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OPTION 1
FOR MULTIPLE MALES
YOU NEED TO ADD
2 MANIFOLD CHAINS
engineering a chamber or pipe with several openings for receiving or distributing a fluid or gas, such as the intake or exhaust manifolds of an internal-combustion engine
MY DEFINITION
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AT LEAST 2 more motor speed controllers
MAYBE as many as 6 You give only 1 to a person, as they fight toIncrease / decrease the RPMs they will cause other people to be Stimulated
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When using this option you attach hoses 2 and 5 (both of them suck air) To the SINGLE connection on the manifold.
You run the SEVERAL connections ONE per manifold to EACH person.
As in
for this example lets say they have 6 positions = (P1, P2, P3, P4, P5, P6)
EACH MASTURBATION SUITE WILL HAVE MULTIPLE POSITIONS FROM OPTION 2
YOU MIGHT WANT TO HAVE 2 MOTORS IN EACH SUITE SO EACH PERSON CAN GET THE TYPE AND AMOUNT (PENIS, SCROTUM AN RPM) STIMULATION THAT THEY WANT.
You still attach hose 3 to (M1) inside the suite
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OPTION 2
MASTURBATION POSITIONS
You need to make supports for each masturbation position so that when they go weak from exhaustion they do not hurt themselves.
IT WOULD BE A GOOD IDEA TO STRAP THEM IN POSITION
SO THEY DO NOT BEND THEIR BACK AND HURT THEMSELVES.
YOU MUST HAVE A PERSON IN FOR EVERY 2 SUITES TO MONITOR IN CASE SOMEONE HAS A PROBLEM
YOU DO WANT THE STRAPS A LITTLE LOOSE SO THEY CAN WRIGGLE.
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WHEN FACE-DOWN PERSON MAKE SURE THEY CAN BREATH
WHEN FACE-UP MAKE SURE THEY DO NOT CHOKE ON SALIVA
IF YOU CAN COME UP WITH NAMES FOR THE POSITIONS THAT WOULD BE HELPFUL
POSITION DESCRIPTION
1 Laying face up on bed spread-eagled 2 Face down 2 not spread-eagled 3 Face down on table with hole cut for scrotum AND penis 4. Face-down on table with hole for penis Penis hose not on, bucket below table Scrotum hose on. 5. start hands and knees on floor, Chest supported, legs MIGHT be strapped downYOU GET THE IDEA
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DESCRIPTION
IN order not to burn out OR short circuit the motor handling the liquid MOTOR 1 will PUSH AIR OUT.
Attach hose 1 FROM MOTOR 1 “AIR OUT” to one of the TOP ENDS of the Y connector.
Attach hose 2 to the other TOP END this will be attached to the penis
Attach hose 3 to BOTTOM end of Y and to vacuum cleaner (USED AS CONTAINER ONLY or plastic pail.
MOTOR 1 PUSHES AIR OUT TO HOSE 1 ATTACHED TO Y CONNECTOR.
THIS CAUSES SUCTION ON HOSE 2 PULLING LIQUIDS FROM BODY.
HOSE 1 THEN PUSHES LIQUIDS INTO HOSE 3
SO THAT THERE IS NO RISK OF MOTOR 2 BURNING OUT FROM LACK OF AIR WE WILL USE THE SECOND Y CONNECTOR AND HOSES 4, 5 AND 6.
Hose 6 will be DRY
Tubes MUST BE wide enough so that parts can vibrate VERY GENTLY.
You MIGHT wish to put holes in the tubes for better EFFECT
THE TUBES MAY NEED TO BE CHANGED TO A LARGER DIAMETER AS PENIS AND SCROTUM SWELL.
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OPERATION
FIRST
DO NOT CAUSE PAIN
Because it will takes days / weeks to recover.
SECOND
DO NOT CAUSE EXCESSIVE PLEASURE Because you may not want to have intercourse or anal sex againStart motors
Attach hoses 2 and 5 to PENIS and SCROTUM
ALTERNATE BETWEEN MOTORS
Adjust motors TO A LOWER RPM as needed so that liquids come out ALMOST continually.
Posted by: Steven Belsky | January 3, 2009 4:09 PM