Fellatio and Dominant Women
Ah, I swore to myself I’d quit talking about gender stuff. But ofttimes when a theme has come to mind it refuses to depart.
Elsewhere I read this in a blog comment. The man was talking about the pleasure of being fellated.
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That still has tremendous appeal to me mentally, but i now understand what a horrifically distasteful and very degrading experience this is for many (perhaps most) Women. As a submissive man, the fact that my Wife will now no longer subject Herself to that clearly submissive (and foul-tasting) task, but now expects me to swallow every bit of my come (no spitting!) or be punished/disciplined however She may see fit would absolutely drive me to the brink erotically speaking.
(Note the subjunctive “would” in the final sentence. Not uncommon in submissive guys. Makes it hard to be sure if you are reading something actual or wished.)
In a conversation I was having elsewhere I invited people to tell me what they found to be most common place in stereotypical images of dominant women. One dominant woman wrote:
I’ll insist on lots and lots and lots of oral sex, rarely if ever allow him to fuck me, and never give a blow job.
She likes performing oral sex on the man she loves. How many do? I don’t know. Quite a few. Informing her that she’s above fellatio may leave her seeing you as trite and – interestingly – controlling. If that is important to you perhaps you should say that “I’m only interested in a Domme who despises giving blow jobs.” (And if she doesn’t hit the Delete key I’d love to see her reply.)
But it was the “foul-tasting” that caught my attention. If my ejaculate is ill-flavored no one has wised me up. I’ve given a few blow jobs myself. Tastes OK to me: it is the flavor of a lover’s pleasure.
Nor can I find fault with a penis grazing along my taste buds. I like the taste another’s flesh: perfumed or even rich in the other’s natural scent.
My point? Nothing much. This is a weblog you know. Just wanted to demur at the image of fellatio as unpleasant.
As far as tasting my own ejaculate. I did that once (and suspect most do). Merely boring. But it would be keen for Alexandra to order me to eat it. Why it slaps down the degradation button I can’t say but it does.
And if you do find fellatio unpleasant I have no brief against you: why argue against another’s sexual preferences and prejudices. Leave that to the fundagelicals.