Penis Confinement: An Experiment in Symbolic Surrender

I’m dissapointed that I hadn’t got a chance to fully read this entry before you made your suprise visit home. When you told me after I came offline from talking to my parents, I was a little shocked :)

I have to say I like the effect it had on you when you came in. And I propose a solution to the problem of it creating submissiveness when I’m not in the mood for play - if you take it to work with you, you could wear it at my command.

After reading this I was tempted to take the prickly penis sheath that we’ve never used to the shop since it would be easier to hide.

But you telling me to put some sort of penis confinement on would make it impossible to put on. You have to be completely deflated.

Pity this seemed like such a potentially satisfying gesture and maybe a solution for other issues.

I too like the feeling of my genitals encaged or so. Years ago I told my wife. As she is absolutely not into BDSM or D/s she was shocked. I decided then to leave it, but in the last week the desire was too strong. Now I have a penis ring on, fastened by rope around my testicles. It is a wonderful feeling and it is a pity I have to take it off when we are goint to bed. Richard, I hope Alexandra soon will command you to wear that cage.

appy

I don’t think Alexandra has fully decided what - if anything - she may want to do in terms of penis restriction.

Thanks.

I am certainly in favour of the idea, but we need to come up with an idea of how you can use it without destroying synchronicity with me or creating more imbalance in our D/s relationship.

The idea that I can’t tell you when to put it on because you will get an erection instantly is an amusing one :)

Love you honey xx

I’d need the penile equivalent of a shoehorn if commanded to go into the store’s bathroom and put on the cage. Nature of the one-legged critter.

I really wish we’d thought about doing this sooner. But the orgasm denial fanatics had originally inclined me against anything along these lines.

My pet and I use something called the Club Fem MCD (male chastity device). ($40) As described on their site, “The MCD is a band of plastic that has molded teeth on the business side. The device is fastened around the penis and rewards an erection with a rather painful reminder the wearer is not to do that without permission.”

When he is instructed to wear it to work, he comes home in a much more submissive state of mind.

The best result that I found was an unexpected use. When alone, if he starts to get aroused, it quenches the erection, however, during interaction with me, he gets hard despite the pain, and it becomes a wonderful form of CBT! The more it hurts, the harder he gets, which creates a lovely circular form of torture, and at several points I can have him gasping and in tears with very little effort on my part. Of course, I do tend to do things that provoke his arousal, as well, during all this. :)

Another plus about this device, is that it can be put on during an erection, and then gradually tightened as the penis becomes flaccid.(It fastens with a zip tie) (No more excuses about erections preventing putting a device on, Richard!)

Alexandra put me in the ClubFEM MCD once shortly before she had to go back home. It made for a pain but wonderful evening. (Wrote that up, should be in the Genitorment section.)

There’s no other way to put this: I’m simply too thick to be able to wear it outside of a scene. That was a disappointment. We are both interested (to put it too dryly) in penis confinement that prevents an erection.

She’s become interested in exploring the effect of chastity. The worry was that it might keep me too consistently submissive. (Naturally I find that exciting.)

So I’ve ordered one of the stallion guards. If the result are satisfactory then we may look into one of the more high-end devices.

Suggestions and tips are always welcome.

Thanks.