The Heartrending Power of Spit
» Humbling
Spitting on someone can be the most stringent expression of contempt.
It isn’t something you ordinarily see in real life. Movies mostly?

This Eric Stanton drawing isn’t directly relevant to the theme. But the mix fear and surrender is as close as I’m able to come with the fund of images I have at hand.
It hadn’t been something I’d fantasized about it. Shortly after Alexandra and I starting talking about D/s it came to mind. I gathered together a bunch of checklists so I could give her a detailed list of punishments and humiliations and how I felt about them. Maybe being spat upon appeared on one of those. Let me dig for a moment. Ah,here it is:
Spitting: Yes. Disturbs me a little.
Really it disturbed me considerably. My mind cringed. Physically harmless but I felt confused. A bolt of spit would split my spirit in the with the radiant annihilation of a neutron hitting the nucleus of Uranium 238.
I’m not easily humiliated but this would unequivocally leave me feeling filthy and degraded. For me few acts are more exemplary of the confused disgust and desire at the core of emotional masochism.
There are a couple of Sardax drawings featuring Domina and spittle. I can barely look at them. Even mere drawings make me want to run and hide.
I remember trying to convey my feelings to Alexandra. I was probably anything but clear. I had to confess the act’s power. And my desire it not happen too early. At first I knew simply being able to kneel before her was going to overwhelm. And as loathsome as it seemed I also feared that if it were to happen too often the power would fade. Greedy admissions.
I wasn’t keeping count but the night came when she did spit on me.
On a later night that will never die in memory she spat on me repeatedly. Maybe it was only four or five times. I wanted her to stop so badly. I started to type that it was worse than pain. Pain and degradation however closely they can be allied don’t always hit the same part of the heart.
Really it left me in such beautiful abjection that I worshipped her for taking my malleability and working it however she pleased.



Comments
What I think: Did your mistress use this practices as a ‘punishment’ intending just to humiliate you? Or - maybe - she intended to lead you beyond ‘inner borders’ as you wrote it would ‘somehow disturb you’? Tastes and aversions are quite, quite different - for me a woman’s saliva is the most adorable body fluid and my beloved do not share this taste..
Posted by: Julian | May 10, 2005 3:57 PM
I’m fairly sure that she did want to humiliate me, punishment may have been part of the component. Pushing at my internal borders was probably not consciously on her mind though I do believe she enjoys taking me more deeply into the servile state.
It is for her to say should she have the urge.
Posted by: Richard | May 10, 2005 5:10 PM
I love to be spat on and slapped round the face while the lady and any friends of hers watch and laugh at me
Posted by: jared | May 12, 2005 2:25 PM
I’m sure your feelings are common. But how does it make you feel? Why is it potent for you?
Posted by: Richard | May 12, 2005 2:44 PM
I really love being spat upon by a beautiful woman. Prefer that in combination with kissing her toes.
Being spat upon by two or more women would be even cooler but never experiencd that.
To me it is not a humiliation but just removing some artificial borders
Posted by: Baltvilks | November 7, 2005 12:55 AM
does anibody knows any femdom site , whgere girls spit on boys ?? free if possible .. hehe thx
Posted by: hool | December 8, 2005 2:19 PM
is there anything more arousing than the smell of a woman’s spit—drying on your face and nose???
i like to beg for it.
Posted by: paul | January 3, 2006 3:50 PM
I also love being spat upon by a beautiful woman and I also prefer it in combinatin with kissing her toes and heels. I love the feeling and smell of female spit drying on my face. Do not consider it humiliation at all. Just adoration.
Being spat upon by a group of laughing women would be just super but so far had no chance to experience that.
Nice to know that there are quite a few of us here.
Posted by: eric | February 26, 2006 2:33 AM
I have been reading this topic with interest. I held the belief that spitting was just something I never wanted to participate in at all for a long time. I have seriously changed my mind on that.
In my relationship I am dominant much of the time but I still love those bottomy activites when I feel the urge. He is more than happy to oblige me. The first experience I had with spitting..he told me to open my mouth and then spit into it. I felt so much shame. Then such a oneness with this man I adore. From then on it’s gotten easier and easier.
I honestly think I needed to feel that shame before going further. He says he loves recieving it just the same. I guess it’s all dependant on how you do it and with whom..at least for me.
Posted by: ceg | February 27, 2006 12:15 PM
Damn, I must be crazy, its that new hardcore generation I guess. Younger than the rest of ya ill bet. Well. If a woman was gonna do THIS with me I’d be a very happy guy, because I dont think of it as humiliation, I just like fun, sexy wet secretions. Ok, I’m wierd. But I let it out now lol.
Posted by: Steve | July 7, 2006 5:01 PM
I love to think of a so superior woman’s saliva buiding up in her sweet mouth. Foamy wetness starts forcing its way out of her mouth and fall down upon my waiting face. She commands me to open my mouth and then lets a long clear drool fall. Most of it goes directly into my mouth but some has landed on my lips and cheeks. She laughs at me for looking so degraded and stupid and I just humbly lick off the excess spit from my lips and swallow it like a helpless little obedient boy.
Posted by: steve waters | July 31, 2006 3:57 PM
I noticed that Hool was looking for a site where girls spit on guys. I have lots of femdom spitting clips in my clipstore. I enjoy producing clips where single or multiple doms drench a slave in spit. I also integrate spitting in other femdom clips. If you look at the chart at the top of the store you will see spitting/human ashtray recepticle. Hit that button for tons of pictures of the diferent spit clips.
Posted by: Taylor | August 2, 2006 12:39 AM
I am a 35 year old male from Delhi, India. I always liked spit, first my own then females. I like to store them in bottles and then slowly rub over my bod, nipples, arms, penis…. sniff them as I masturbate. I like the early morning spit before brushing and collect for the night time masturbation. Gradually i made to understand about this fetish of mine to my girlfriends and all seem to enjoy it. I like mutual spitting and girls started liking it. I also add to it by asking them not to take bath, and apply deos and perfumes to body and armpits. We used to enjoy the body odor of each other. We like to wear fresh leather items which has a strong smell too. I ould tell my girlfriends not toshave their armpits and The hairy pits with their musky odor is sch a turn on…..!!!
Posted by: spitlover2006@yahoo.co.in | August 6, 2006 7:38 AM
I LOVE being spat at/on. I think it stems from my teenage years. I used to hang around with 3 or 4 girls of a similar age. One day for no particular reason other than ‘teenage devilment’ I guess, they started spitting in my face. We had a mock fight and roll around over this, but I’m sure they must have noticed how turned on I was! And it’s stayed with me ever since. I suppose it’s a very intimate thing to experience, and I love humiliation so that aspect of it is incredibly exciting too. Anywhere on my body is good. In my face is great, but directly into my mouth is the holy grail! And don’t even get me started on spitting and snowballs…….
Posted by: strong_but_sub@hotmail.co.uk | November 7, 2006 7:55 AM
I have been reading and am surprised at how many spit lovers are out there. I love the smell of spit and love to be spat on by myself or by my lover, yet my lover is hesitant. she thinks it’s kinda gross. Does anybody know how I can get her to realize this isn’t a “bad” thing. I dont think she has ever enjoyed the pleasure of spit. I usually ask her to spit in my hand, then I rub it all over my face and under my nose so I can smell it. When I’m alone I use my own spit to enjoy. I have an air mattress that I lay on so it doesnt soak into the sheets, the smell on the air matress is awsome too!! Smelling spit is the way to go!
Posted by: rikki | December 1, 2006 9:58 AM
The idea makes me feel queasy, the way falling in dog turd might. I would not find it humiliating or a turn on. I am suprised at just how many of you there are!
I would be happy enough to spit on/in someone else though…
Posted by: ASG | December 1, 2006 4:15 PM
There’s no great interest in reading what someone isn’t into. There are so many forms of sexual play with or without BDSM you should pursue your pleasures and not worry about the rest of us.
Posted by: Richard | December 1, 2006 5:21 PM
Rikki!
You do not live in Hawaii, do you?
Mahalo, chet
Posted by: chet | December 4, 2006 10:25 AM
chet,
No I do not live in Hawaii. What does Mahalo mean? Do you have a spit story, please share.
rikki
Posted by: rikki | December 5, 2006 7:30 PM
hey guys yes this fetish is so underground! and its slowly catching on in the porn industry and i hope it reaches mainstream fetish scene. Anyways i started liking this fetish after coming across some brazilspit.com videos which is now closed. They had 30 mins of continous loogies back n forth sO! hardcore.. really those brazilians even vomit into eachother man, yucky but romantic too in a way. Anyways lets hope this fetish makes it mainstream.
Posted by: A dude | February 24, 2007 11:19 PM
GOD, SO MUCH OF A TURN ON, I LOVE TO BE SPAT ON, MY GIRL FRIEND TIES ME UP, SPITS ON MY EYES AND IN MY MOUTH, SHE COVERS MY FACE WITH IT, I CANT DO ANYTHING COS OF BEEING TIED DOWN, SHE LEAVES IT TO DRY, THEN, CARRIES ON SPITTING IN TO A CUP, WHEN THERES A GOOD LOT IN THERE, SHE MAKES ME DRINK, GOD, NOW THATS A TURN ON,
Posted by: paul | March 5, 2007 8:27 AM
hi—this spit site is awesome—ive been intot the fetish of women’s spit since im a little kid—its a mild obsession with me…Its not that usual-so its great to find a forum about it..But let me ask a question—for me—the spit obesession is related to the smell of a woman’s mouth/ breath—-the smell of SOME women’s breath drives me mad!! anyone else have this fetish?? lets talk about it….!
Posted by: dominick | April 6, 2007 6:35 PM
All this “spit” talk has me drooling - everywhere!!!
Posted by: lectric_eel | April 9, 2007 9:34 AM
I am from New Delhi, any girl interested in this act of spitting on a male and forcing me to drink their spit can contact me at —————.
Posted by: Roy | April 9, 2007 3:57 PM
I’ve just asked my girlfriend to spit on my face the next time I’m subbing (we switch). I’ve been fantasisng about it for quite a while and can’t wait till it happens (I hope we both enjoy it). I guess it’s the same as women who want facial cum shots. This is the best a man can get.
Posted by: DVT | August 29, 2009 2:48 AM
i’d like to eat food spat by mistress every day and would like to mistress spat on me, especially face and head.
Posted by: steve | November 13, 2009 12:30 PM