Her Heel On My Neck & . . .

I actually don’t think they are that strict at all, they are simply respectful, it is not difficult to adhere to them I think. The rules that I have with my own Slave Bronze are in a lot of ways similar, one that she NOT turn her back on me when leaving my presence, that when I enter a room after a reasonable period that she stand or kneel in a respectful state until I tell her she may rest or do something. She is not to interrupt me unless its important and if it is, that she graciously ask my permission before she do it. If its an emergency, even I agree respect is less important than the resolvment of the situation ie her screaming “FIRE” not that its come up… but important nonetheless. If she is not occupied with anything she sits at my left side on her knees quietly.

While I don’t punish her for a period of time, I do punish her with series of whacks. Bronze isn’t too fond of my use of a wooden spoon on her thighs and buttocks (she is less of a masochist more into servitude) and when I am to punish her, I hit her numerous times with great force to bruise sometimes for up to a week at a time… and make it quite difficult to sit. If she doesn’t have to work the next day and she requires to be punished I might have her sleep on the floor instead of the bed, if it requires more of an intense punishment, I will tell her to sleep on the floor in the other room where its all cold tile (this I have yet to do… but it can be required in the future) but I stop myself if she has to work the next day because I do not wish to interfere with her performance at work as her work situation is not really that stable.

These are just the things I do. And I don’t think the things you have to do are much different than that… they are simply treating your ‘Goddess’ with respect she deserves and if you don’t respect her enough obviously 15 mins of punishment is required, and perhaps a tad lenient IMHO.

Miss Silver Vancouver BC

Wow, what a long post! :)

It all gets my stamp of approval.

STAMP

Yesterday we were both in an off and amorphous mood and I felt D/s woudln’t work. But we talked a lot and as a result we have all these interesting and exciting ideas. So not really much of a bad day after all.

And of corse we spent most of the day together either cuddling or talking. In retrospect it was a wonderful day, even if our D/s expectations were thwarted.

Love you pet xx

I like the ideas in your comment, Miss Silver… Making the slave sleep on cold tiles is very sexy. Making the slave not turn your back on you is also very dominant; maybe I could work that in after my basic rules have settled in.

I made the punishments start lenient but they will increase with each infraction. Maybe I should up the increments from 2 to 10 minutes :).. I’ll see how we get on.

Sleeping situations can be very effective.

My former pet was very fond of sleeping on a piece of chairmat, spiked side up. For him it was a treat (something he often begged for). For someone else, it might well not be.

I can see sleeping on a pallet on the floor as a very lovely way of expressing an inferior status.

And sleeping in another room as a form of punishment.

Sleeping on something uncomfortable is exciting but it is hard to imagine doing that outside of a 24/7 relationship.

Richard,

About the collar, who decides when you have to wear it? Can you put it on when you want or do you need permission or a command?

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I can put the collar in a visible place like our mantle to indicate a desire for her to take control over me. Though I feel hesitant about putting visible pressure on her. Often when we are together if I’m feeling the need to surrender I often bow my head and rest it on her chest as a sign.

And she of course can say she’d like to see me in the collar. My goal is to never refuse her D/s with or without the collar. But I did last night because I could tell how out of it she was.

http://www.tiedmoments.com/rika/tvd.htm Rika Vanilla Dom is a wonderful site.It is a very practical view of 24/7 D/s.We have discovered by stumbling,trial and error and luck what we finally found on this site.All relationships and tastes are unique but we find this fits ours.My aproach to most things is,JUMP!Start,commit,devour,take,demand,go for it!Not a couple of days,a month,minimum.Richard,you won’t die.Alexandera,he won’t break (easily).An hour reading a book or an hour with nipple and ball clamps,which hour is longer?Which hour makes you feel more alive?

You’re already sent me that link.

I have the feeling that you may have been reading this weblog but have no understanding at all of my relationship with Alexandra.

What’s up Richard are you not understanding that the broad principals of all relationships are similar in many ways.I have strong opinions and endless curiosity,please don’t judge my understanding of your relationship.I asked if you were in a monogamist relationship.That was all I needed to know.You refered to Alexandra and I perceived as Alexandra.I did not search for details because I thought your blog was about fetish and BDSM lifestyles.I mentioned a wed site twice,please forgive me.Today I read about your love,Alexandra.It was a twist,but a truely interesting one.If you don’t fine my postings worthy,simply delete them,after all I am your guest.

No, Dave, keep on commenting.

I greatly enjoyed your menthol torture story.

But I often feel that you are projecting your own style on us.

Richard: I never ever TELL anyone how to live or what to do.I’m thrilled with what we have found.I want only one thing for everyone;suck all of the life out of today.When we are old and gray we won’t say “I wish I would have done _“.Live life large and loud and always be the first one out of the airplane with a well packed parahchute.I wish you and Alexandra an excepional life.Please read my future words with this in mine.All Ideas are spread out before us and we choose what works for us.That is my intention and only motive.