Ideal Dominant
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I suspect that a few may have found my earlier praise of professional dominatrices offputting. Mistress Xia is good instance of the insightful ProDomme:
When I think about being a Mistress or Master, my ideal often falls into the vein of Eastern martial arts and spiritual masters. Those who have mastered themselves through self-discipline, control over one’s emotions, and self-reflection. With BDSM play, I envision a balance of the placid, serene qualities of truly being at ease along with the more wild, driving and fierce energies which exist within and all around each of us. So once again, each engagement may swing the pendulum from one extreme to another, yet the whole encompasses an overarching equilibrium.
The “Ideal” Master or Mistress
