Name Your Favorite BDSM Fantasy Person

I hate to disappoint, but I don’t actually fantasize, BDSM or otherwise, about celebrities. “Sex with a stranger” is just not something that’s ever appealed to me. I think I’d be more intimidated than anything.

This doesn’t mean there aren’t several famous people I enjoy drooling over: David Bowie looked amazing back in the day, and I’ll watch just about any dreck with Uma Thurman or Michelle Pfeiffer in it (lovely ladies both, if a bit fashionably thin…but I have no desire to have sex with either one).

I wouldn’t have wasted your time with this, but it was time somebody said something. Perhaps it will break the ice.

I’ll own up to my cheap side. A couple of days ago I ran across a photo of lingerie model Alley Baggett and has the most intense tease and denial fantasy of my life. I don’t know if it was her physical charms of my mental state that caused it (the latter being that my beloved is across the ocean so I’m always in some sort of denied state).

It was humiliating and excruciating. Normally I don’t think of orgasm denial. My penis fondled, caressed but confined by some sort of chastity device. In my mind this was powerfully objectifying, dehumanizing.

But most of the women I’ve wished I could surrender to were people on the street or who walked into my used bookshop. They had killer intelligent eyes and poise.

Pretty lips, nicely shaped breasts are wonderful things but nothing beats an aura of confidence, a hint of disdain. Age and physical configuration aren’t that important.

Tura Satana. I don’t remember how aware of my F/m feelings when I first saw Faster Pussycat! Kill! Kill.

Seeing her as Varla made me feel the only appropriate response was to wallow in the dust before her.

Oddly many of the women I find very attractive, usually it is their personal qualities combined with their surface allure, I do not have any fantasies about. At all. Ever. I like looking at them. Nothing more.

Dear R.,

Sex with strangers was a normal part of my young manhood.

No, I didn’t really see you sitting there fantasizing about bending Johnny Depp (or whoever) to your will.

Michelle Pfeiffer, yeah, she is wonderful. But I’ve never had a fantasy about her.

Mostly I can never remember which famous person looks like what. I know there’s someone named Cameron Diaz but I couldn’t tell you her hair color much less recognize her.

I think we’d both agree it is about mindset not physical glamour.

Honestly, every now and then some famous hottie will grab my attention for a fantasy. But by the next day it is gone.

Give me the most pedestrian looking woman who enjoys having power and it beats the celebrity of the moment.

I did hope this entry would get a few comments from the shy folks who don’t comment. But there’s no budging the inert.

My most powerful femdom fantasy in my teens came from seeing a comedy film called ‘Son of Paleface’. It stared Bob Hope you got seduced and tied up by the female leader of a gang of robbers played by Jane Russell. She conveyed that authority and air of disdain towards men thta has been aludeded to in your post Although Jane is rightly famous for her breasts, she also has legs to die for. Many a night did i fantaize being tied up and having my face slapped by her!

Jane Russell, yeah, I can see that.

With her shoulders and the look that she could put in her eyes it is easily to see her as the one to take charge.

Thanks.

Another name that comes to mind is Lucy Lawless - not just as Xena (though she is sexy enough) - but also in Hecules and the Amazon Women. However in that film there is a scene that wouldn’t go out of my mind for month’s.In it Hercules has been captured by the Amazons and is bound and at the mercy of the Amazon Queen, played by Roma Downley. Listen to her taunting her captive at http://members.tripod.com/~pg4anna/amazon.htm. Go to the Official Roma Downey site, click on films and then pick Hercules and the Amazon Women.

She kept me awake for hours!

Lucy Lawless, I don’t think there’s any other way for me to put this, is too butch for me. But I can see how she’d give many a man the right kind of thrill.

Roma Downey I only know from Touched By an Angel. Kind of cute but very hard to imagine as dominant rather than submitting to the Lord.

Not that I’m mocking you. We each have our own perceptions.

Richard - did you listen to her voice on the web site I mentioned? Must be a good actress if you visualize her as an angell!

I only see her as an angel because that is her best-known role: she had a hugely successful TV show as an angel that helped people. It was quite disgusting.

I just got through playing the clip. Sorry. It is one of those personal subjective things. It didn’t do anything for me. I think I even saw that episode when it first appeared on TV.

Pamela Anderson in Barb Wire. Boots and fishnets and physical ability. Oh my, this is a shameful confession.

Jaime Pressly in Poison Ivy: New Seduction made a very sexy ProDomme. Though too scary a human being. The few scenes of her dressed up are worth seeing. But be warned: she does murder one of the men she ties up.

well, for starters there’s “Goddess Siren” Herself …to just sit at Her feet would be the thrill of a lifetime … to be “punished” by Her would be to enter into the very Gates of Heaven!

as to “celebrities” . . Jennifer Tilly immediately comes to mind … she was a subbie in “Bound” . . but i see Her as a domina more — with Her sulty voice and sexy allure any male would crawl across broken shards of glass naked to “do Her bidding”.

The real person in your life is always the most important.

This was just a silly game. I was curious to see if anyone would come up with any surprising choices.

Allyson is Watching: I don’t even remember the any of the cast’s names. But this is a good place as any to stuff this.

If you are willing to rent a movie for several minutes of a dominatrix pinning a man to a bed, slapping him in the face and telling him to not enjoy it you might find this worthwhile.

For me it was just interminable and after that scene I keep fast forwarding and then stuck it in my Netflix return envelope. But the idea of Alexandra doing that to me did leave me …

i have never bought nor rented any videos directly dealing with “dominatrix relationship” … although i have seen countless summarized on various web-sites. and no particular film stands out in my mind as having a great impact upon me (but i’ll bet over the years there have been “snippets” from many which have impinged upon my “psyche”.

i must mention the entire “Xena-Warrior Princess” television series as my all time favorite … if ever a Woman dominated it was Lucy Lawless as Xena. From the moment the series “theme music” begins, She is in control of your attention . . and She keeps hold of it long after the story has concluded … in fact, the series is no longer “on” (except in syndication) and Xena still rules … i think that THAT series was a “landmark” for “Female Supremacy” and “female Domination” … not in a heartless and coldly clinical way, but it presented a “Dominating Woman with a heart and soul and conscience” … who’s vulnerabilities were strengths as well. “i have many talents” was Her classic tag-line … and in fact, She did! :)

The two celebs i fantasise over the most are the late great Lolo ferrari, i am a trannie and would love to BE her!,when i am in lolo mode my masochistic fantasys are extreme featuring galley slavery,forced labour,pony girls,concentration camps,enemas,piss,and culminating in execution fantasys of death by hanging or firing squad all at the hands of fearsome uniformed negress lesbian bodybuilders….heaven! Which brings me to my next fave celeb Venus Williams in my fantasys she is my favorite victimiser i imaginr her kicking,punching,spitting and making free with steel tipped whips and powerful electrodes,i imagine her in full on riding kit ,britches boots ,spurs, straddling poor lolos shoulders riding me to the point of death all the while lashing hard,viciously spurring,screaming the foulest vitriolic abuse,and yanking savagly at my nipple reins,when i collapse i am savagly kicked ,whipped and either shot or hung with barbed wire. the porn star Belladonna is also a prisoner at the camp,and the only food is piss and recycled shit from the prison toilets.

I suspect the Xena character matched many men’s image of a strong woman.

There’s very little in the way of movies where a Domme or dominatrix has a part. Mostly cameos. Probably Raquel Welch with a whip in The Magic Christian was the earliest.

In English the two movies that come to mind are Preaching to the Perverted, a sort of romantic comedy involving a lifestyle Domme. And Fetishes a documentary looking into the live of a few ProDommes.

Most of the serious movies that look at erotic F/m relationships are in French I think. And there are only a few of those.

I’d dimly heard of Lolo Ferrari, probably because of that 71” bust line.

Those are some pretty heavy fantasies. Not that I’m mocking you. I’ve had some my self but you beat me completely.

Paris Hilton. The thought of the bratty spoiled heiress dominating me is almost too much.

Being a part time submissive, I would love to be dominated by Johnny Depp or Antonio Banderas. Drew Barrymore, Heather Graham and Angelina Jolie would make awesome femdom’s!

Johnny Depp on all fours nekkid..crawling and begging for my special brand of punishment would be…fascinating.

it is my hardent desire to be broken onto sm and shwn the ropes and chains of the organizations to screwed and tatooted