Chastity: A Speculation
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A couple of times I’ve noted that Alexandra’s absence and sudden jolts of erotic appetite left me in gray mood.
Chastity is something we’ve tentatively talked about exploring one day. Not a big thing for us.
Last night I did fine myself wondering how it might have affected my mood if say she’d put me in a chastity device before she left for the UK. Would the denied arousal left me happier although frustrated?
If BDSM toy sites are to be believed chastity enforcement devices are popular sellers. Not much in the way of illustrations to be found but you can always count on the Bishop.
No way to know.
If you are wondering about the experiment going on too long (not that it would seem so to an enforced chastity addict) it would’ve been easy enough for her to hide a key here and tell me where it was.
Just one of those idle speculations.
And I’m back to being my normally cheerful self.
Comments
Enforced chastity devices are a wonderful spice.The relationship I am in has included surrender of my sexual activity.Before three years ago I could not imagine giving this very personal part of my life.The long journal entries about all of the reasons she should control this were at last accepted.The first period was one year and then I would take back control or surrender it for ever.The thought of not changing my mood with a good cum was freightful.In practice I was amazed at the power Mistress had over me.The fact that I could go more then a day without this old friend was powerful.Our relationship was launched into a whole new world.Mistress is my chastity device,more effective then any belt or cage.One simple word binds me even if I was on the moon.The thought of disobeying is unimaginable.Our love is deep and this D/s relationship gets it’s power from trust.The only true reason to be punnished is because I did not keep my promise.This in it’self would be devistating,keeping my promises show my devotion.Mistress only has control of what I have freely given.I have promised much more then I can give,so she is free to take beyond what I feel like giving.So far we are both amazed at the power of this principle.The spice of a chastity device reaches a new level when it takes the uncontrolable actions of my body.I have been locked into a CB 3000 with optional spikes for as long as three days at one time without removal.The day time hours were fine,even sleep was OK until morning wood.I would wake in pain and have an uncontrolable rock in that plastic prison.The thought of a controlled erection is stressful but fun for Mistress.We practice it and enjoy the added frustration and control.There are times I wish I were locked away to remove my access to my old friend.For us true chastity is to be bound by honor and words.
Posted by: Dave | June 24, 2005 9:48 AM
One might argue that since many men find an erotic thrill in chastity it is a form of gratification rather than submission.
But:
That is thinking in old-fashioned D/s terms. Why shouldn’t the guy find gratification?
Given the emotional stress in going without an orgasm it surely must be the most valuable thing many men can think of offering.
That you can control yourself without a device is pretty impressive testimony. Given a strong stab of desire were I to make such a promise I wouldn’t swear I’d always be able to live up to it.
Chastity belts, or at least similar devices, mostly interest me as S&M: that she would torment me by causing my penis to fight against its cage. We have a couple of toys we’ve yet to play with. And someday I’d like to see what Club Fem’s MCD feels like.
Posted by: Richard | June 25, 2005 6:55 AM
Personally, I dont want to be chastised. I love masturbation and the orgasm I get from masturbation far outweighs any I think I could ever get from sex or oral stimulation.
Still, my girlfriend’s being insistent since she believes that since I masturbate sometimes several times a day takes away from our sex life. Maybe so.
When I’m chastised though, my fantasies dont get to run anywhere because the fear of erection and the pain that goes with it is too much to bear so I keep my mind off sex and sexuality. Do I think this will help my and my girlfriend’s sex life? I dont think so.
Still, Right before Xmas I bought the CB-300 dubbed “The Curve.” The reason we picked this one is because of my 9 inch cock and the fact that even limp it’s 4 inches long and the curve is said to be “best for the longer male.”
Still, the thing hurts alot to get hard in. So far I’ve worn it daily (but not nightly) due to the fact that I wake up after about 4 hours with a raging irreversible hardon and balls the color of black cherries. Anyways, I wore it like this for about 2 weeks before I discovered I could pull my cock out easily because I have small balls.
So she ordered me today to purchase the “Points of intrigue for it.”
Personally, I dont want to be chastised. I love masturbation and the orgasm I get from masturbation far outweighs any I think I could ever get from sex or oral stimulation, but she shes things differently. Time will tell.
Posted by: devotedslave73 | January 25, 2006 9:49 PM