Submission is the Reward
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One a forum someone asked a question of the women: what is more important submission or obedience.
What flashed into my mind was that: submission is the reward.
By placing myself within Alexandra’s power I’m privileged to enter submissive emotional space.
I’m pretty sure she feels the same. That my consent is available is a given. But if I’m merely complying then I’m not giving Alexandra what she needs. It is my grateful pleasure in deference.
True of many -most? - of us.
Comments
I never looked at it like that but there may be some weight to this theory. Plus, it is a simultaneous reward for both of us, since your submission and my dominance are essentially the same thing in some ways (we both work to make ‘it’ happen).
Posted by: Alexandra | April 24, 2006 12:57 PM
You are so right, for me, submission IS the reward. i just love that warm, weak, melting feeling as i submit so willingly to Her dominance. Whether it is standing in my corner, kneeling at Her feet, or compliantly bending over Her knee for correction, i get that same giddy rush of submission- it’s addictive! And i am almost positive that Alexandra is right, that it is a simultaneous reward for both of the submissive and the Domme. What could possibly be better?
Posted by: trissy | June 2, 2006 4:57 PM