Intense S&M
» Pain
I doubt we are ready for something like this but I hope the day will come when we can explore this spookier side of S&M (from the bdsm.novice forum on BDSM Talk):
It is something that we've brought out into the light and examined critically. I sometimes like to really hurt her, in non-erotic ways. This is not about pain-as-pleasure. It's about the power-rush that comes from knowing that this woman is completely in my power. Her tears excite me. Her discomfort arouses me. I love to hear her beg. This is real Sadism. I'm riding high on causing her pain knowing full well that she is NOT enjoying it.

