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Myles was writing about slapping a man in the face:
Do you consider it humiliating? Erotic? Dangerous? Part of power play?
My response:
Depends on the context.
Humiliating: there’s a feeling of helpless objectification that is hard for me to distinguish from humiliation. Having your face slapped as a reprimand or cruel whim hits that spot perfectly.
Erotic: Alexandra’s mixed it with affection. It is very sexy to not know if you are going to be kissed, have your hair yanked, cuddled or slapped.
Dangerous: some guys seem to be begging to have their jaw dislocated. She’s never hit me that hard. More force doesn’t always mean greater effect.
Power play: yes, loops back to what I said about about humiliating.
For me this is something that is so special I’m half glad she hasn’t done it more. I can’t really imagine it becoming stale but would never want to take the risk.
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