My BDSM Card Set

This website had one original purpose: to communicate with Alexandra.

To share my desires, test my understanding of hers and suggest potentially pleasurable forms of BDSM play to explore.

There’s no shame in wanting your itches scratched. And BDSM has too many interesting possibilities that shouldn’t be neglected. That would be as aesthetically impoverished as a narrow taste in music and books.

Last week I made a set of cards in an attempt at sharing wishes and possibilities. Aside from my own special wishes I’m often driven toward variety from fear of my own special terror: boredom. (No, that hasn’t happened.)

There are three suites:

Bondage cards vary from merely specifying an object like a hood to more specific positions.

Torment cards also very from the name of an instrument to, say, abrasion preceding corporal punishment.

Richard’s Fantasies are all more elaborate: a variety of acts I’ve often hoped to try. Though the “wildcard” merely says humble me.

I wish I’d split torment into physical pain and humiliations. Not that I can’t refine the set.

How will we use the cards? There are no rules. Nor do I know how much if at all we’ll play for them. They are an entertaining experiment.