How I Got Started in Nipple Torture
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Cameron writes:
Nipple Torture, where do you start? I guess that I started it fairly late, in that I had been doing CBT since I was an early teenager. Though of course I didn’t know that it even had a name and I thought that I was the only one who did it. Anyway, I was so used to CBT in auto erotica that I was having trouble reaching orgasm during ‘normal’ straight vaginal intercourse. The spin off was double edged, on one hand I just kept going and most women had multiple orgasms and often we had to stop due to chaffing. (True story, I’m only about 8 ½ inches long but very thick, thicker than the wrist of most women). On the other side, they felt bad because they had not been able to make me cum. And at that stage on my life I was not secure enough to let them know my preferences. I was ashamed of my “Kink” as I saw it. So, for a long time if there was no CBT or exhibitionism, there was no orgasm.
Young Partner
Then I came across a young woman; let’s call her Karen, who was just this side of legal age. Karen took my difficulty in cuming inside her as a personal challenge. I hadn’t told her about my dependence on CBT for orgasm.
So to cut a long story short, I still remember the first time she grabbed my nipples. We were on her bed and had been going for it for quite a while with her coaxing me, telling me to relax, etcetera. I was on top, pumping away rather mechanically at that point. Then she took hold of my nipples and squeezed……… Oh My God! The effect that had. She felt it immediately. I went form being 4/5 hard to full blown granite in a nano-second. The pain just shot through me like an electric jolt. Then Karen dug her fingernails in and I couldn’t control my self and blew into her young chubby little body so hard it hurt her. I had never cum so hard in a woman before. I still think back and a tiny shudder runs through me.
Needless to say, that we had found a winning formula and set about improving on it. I still hadn’t confessed about the kinky autoerotica I so enjoyed, but her hurting my nipples was amazing. We went from gentle (it now seems) squeezing to biting and digging fingernails in until blood seeped out. We soon developed the ritual that I would take my clothes off as soon as I arrived at her place and she would play/hurt my nipples so that she could see the way is made my penis grow. With out our realising it we had developed dominant / submissive sexual roles. Which opened interesting doors in the future.
It was not long before we started to explore using clothes pegs/pins. At the time they hurt like hell. Now as my nipples have lost some sensitivity or just increased the pain tolerance, they are ‘Ho Hum’.
A very good side affect of this discovery is that when I am having sex with a woman who knows about my nipples she can virtually make me come on demand, so simultaneous orgasms are a common occurrence. Despite all this, I hadn’t shared my CBT tendency with Karen.
Any way, as our relationship was pure sex, it was bound not to last. And it didn’t, after awhile we separated. Then I started experimenting seriously on my self.
But that is for another day. If you like I’ll go into details of what I use and how. Just let me know.
Comments
i am trying out nipple torture and cbt on myself but running out of ideas, need some real pain, its my only way of pleasure.
Posted by: Baz | July 7, 2006 5:18 PM
The most exquisite nipple torture I’ve experienced involved clothespins. I place on on each nipple as far back on the nipple as possible with the clothpins pointing parallel to my chest (left and right vs. straight out.) Then after a while, take a 3rd clothepin and clamp the very tip of the nipple sticking out. This is such an extreme sensation I can only stand it for a few seconds (since I’m not tied down.) But I do repeat over and over. :)
Posted by: HappyD | December 3, 2007 10:22 AM
last night I asked my girl to play with my nipples while I was fucking her. As I became more excited I kept asking her for pressure. I wanted to feel pain. When I reached orgasm her nails were dig so deep in my nipples, I could barely breath and I was screaming for more. It was just great! I can still feel the pain… I recommend it to everyone.
Posted by: miko | December 16, 2007 9:13 AM
Hello Again,
As promised now I have some time and have compiled a brief list of some of my favorite techniques for inflicting nipple pain, both autoerotic and administered by some one else. I have had all these techniques applied to my own nipples.
Pressure/Clamping (inc. weights and tying)
Abrasion
Heat
Chemical
Cutting/inserting
Electric
Impact
Pressure/Clamping (inc. weights and tying)
Clothes Pegs/Pins
I’ll start with Pressure and clamping as this was and still is I guess my favorite. As mentioned by one of the other correspondents to this site, clothes pegs are a perennial favorite. They are cheap and easy to use. The pain can be easily controlled from a back ground ache to reasonably intense. They can be worn unnoticed under loose clothing and importantly, if you have a squeamish partner they are a benign way to introduce her into this delightful realm of nipple pain/torture.
I’ve found that the secret is the closer you get to the tip of the nipple the more pain is produced and for me the more excitement and arousal. Plus you can use more than one on a nipple, one at the base on one on the tip. Mmmmmm that’s good and it’s simple!
Of course there are many different types of clothes pegs/pins on the market. I have a range of different types in my collection
An interesting variation is to have an 18 inch piece of string tied/taped to the peg and attached to a weight (shoe, pliers, anything in fact) clamp the peg to you nipple, holding the weight in your hand close to your chest. Bend over and then drop the weight. Oh boy, if the pain you get doesn’t make you even harder – ask for your money back. If you have a willing partner the variations are endless, aren’t they?
Alligator/Crocodile Clips
These are available at any electronics or electrical store and come in various sizes. They can be used in similar ways to the clothes pegs and can be easily modified with a pair of long nose pliers to suit all sorts of tolerances.
Two of my favorite techniques are to have a pair joined by 12 to 15 inches of electrical cable and so that one goes on each nipple with the cable strung between. This allows the application of weights and other types of pulling devices.
One I like is to have the ‘harness’ attached while I’m driving and have a weight on a chain of rubber bands thread through the steering wheel so that it pulls while I drive. Very stimulating, but potentially distracting.
The other is to have a weight on a long string looped over a door handle and attached to the centre of the ‘harness’ pulling your nipples out from your body. You can pull against it or just let gravity do the work for you. Either is good. A bonus is that it leaves both your hands free for other activities.
The other is simply just to have one clip per nipple and have fishing weights attached. I’ve walked around shopping centers like this (Loose Shirts a must) for 20 plus minutes. The tugging and swaying on my nipples from the walking hurts like hell and turns me on so much I just have to get to the car ASAP.
I will say that at first these clips on virgin nipples are YEOW!! Then I started to count to 10 before removing them, then 50, 100 etc. until I had them on for over 40 minutes. That was usually driving the car or doing house work. Removing them was an experience the blood flowing into the crushed flesh burned all over again. I get tingles just thinking about it.
Oh, I like to have them attached longitudinally, i.e. straight out along my nipple. And if you’re wearing them under a shirt it applies and additional interesting pressure.
Tying Up.
I love having my nipples tied up with some strong thin string at the base. Turning them into little balloons. This then allows you to use other weights etc. Personally I love them being tight like this when I “abrade” them or stick pins into them. The skin is tighter and it just feels so much more positive.
My tied nipples don’t have the ‘give’ a loose one has. So the feeling is great.
Other Things.
As I said your imagination is your only limit. A random list of things you can use to clamp your nipples are – vice grip pliers – G-clamps – wood and rubber bands – freezer bag sealing clips – medical clamps etc, the list is endless.
In the next few days I’ll add info on number 2 Abrasion. Another easy and effective technique though it can get a little bloody
Posted by: cameron | January 25, 2008 8:35 AM
Thanks for this, looking forward to the rest.
Posted by: Richard | January 25, 2008 5:53 PM
Challenge;
I have been using up to 4 heavy duty Radio Shack bare alligator clips on each nipple with up to 2 lbs on nipple while doing 40 vigorous push-ups. Anyone able to beat this ?
pictures upon request.
Posted by: castagnus | April 12, 2008 10:35 PM
My master uses crocodile clips and electro stimulation from a PES or TENS machine. He used clothes pegs in the beginning but then gradually introduced clips and at first they were unbearable but he made me keep them on for longer and longer each session until I can have them on for over 30 minutes, maybe longer. He will attach the clips and then set the PES to a pulse and then just leave me. He will also attach clips to my ball sack which is also unbearable but I love it!
Posted by: servus | August 14, 2008 4:56 AM