The Paradox of Female Supremacy

Thinking of all women as superior (or natural leaders of men, or slave mistresses, etc.) is just (IMO) another way of objectifying them as something other than fellow human beings with whom one might engage on a personal level. I don’t see the email above as any different from patter about how women are all dirty little sluts or whatever.

I really hate when men write/talk as though their only ideas about women are related to their own erections and orgasms.

Ha!

See, this is why my fantasy life is weird. I’d love to have a 24/7 slave, and yet I just can’t quite manage to fit that in with what I want on a day-to-day basis. And then, I can see how meekness is attractive, just as strength is also attractive.

I have also been reading a lot of slavery pornography of late, so take a grain of salt on the 24/7 thing.

Eileen,

A woman once outlined a relationship she had that was bound by a 24/7 contract. Technically he was always ‘enslaved’ but he also had lots of free time in which to be himself and function normally. How many people are capable of making that actually work I can only wonder about.

I don’t seen any contradiction at all between meekness and strength. Being humble but still able isn’t a problem unless you are thinking in terms of porn.

Speaking of which you should post links to what you are reading. Almost everything I see just leaves me feeling distaste.

Dev,

Yeah, being inferior is very hot and sexy for men like me. And most certainly about turning women into sex machines even if it is just to hurt or rule us.

It ignores the reality that erotic dominance doesn’t mean that women don’t have complicated and subtle needs in terms of their sexuality and humanity. Which is what is really wrong about it.

Shall we posit a planet where Carmen Electra Cathedral rests between the Anna Nicole Smith Tabernacle and the First Assembly of Pam Anderson?

Wasn’t this a movie back a few years ago? (Thinking of Pam Anderson doing the pole dance routine in “Barb Wire”… Mmmmm)

Hey, waitaminit - you had to bring up Bond, William Bond, didn’t you?

What a silly guy.

Dominant women enjoy controlling men with a lot of backbone. In fact, men with backbone are the only men that turn me on. I don’t want to be a dominant woman but I am and I can not escape that. I am still looking for the man that can dominate me and (most important) is actually available to marry me instead of being married to someone else or something else.

Thank you for outlining and breaking down what female supremacy is. I don’t like being a female supremacist, but that is what I was raised to be and that is what I cultivated in myself.

It is no wonder my Higher Power is the Holy Trinity, Father, Son and Holy Spirit. I need that male energy and essence in my life to balance me.

I’ve come across many pieces of writing that have this kind of idea and many of these include ideas such as “all men should be enslaved and all mistresses should be allowed to be fucked by real men” or something to that extent. However, anyone who puts more than a penis’s thought into this will quickly realize that this would be impossible, because all men would be enslaved and in chastity.
Unless there were somehow magically twice as many men and every woman would be compatible with two guys instead of just one. Imagine the dating hell.

I wonder how the female supremacists would explain female subs and switches. Maybe they’re just not “enlightened” or confused…..just like lesbians are supposedly confused and “haven’t met the right man yet”.

What really gets me is that the majority of those preaching this garbage have no experience at all, just sitting in front of their computers stroking it, yet they try to tell the rest of us how we should be living our relationships, how we should feel, think, act, etc.

If they got what they wished for, how long would it be before they grew tired of it?

Tom,

Barb Wire is one of my shameful pleasures.

You know, William Bond may be the supreme high loony on all of BDSM.

Tyr,

That whole “real men” and cuckoldry business is something I simply have never been able to relate to.

roo-roo,

I knew a somewhat atypical female supremacist who wasn’t troubled by same sex or male dominant couples. I never pushed her to be coherent about it because overall she was very nice.

Your sarcasm is amusing.

I am amused at how easy people will down others beliefs because they are not ther own.

We are all human animals, different species, but male and female.

Everyone has a role and I believe the females role was and is a little more imprtant than the male.

Women give life, support life, plan life, a long with so much more that men CAN NOT DO.

They do not have the mental capabilities that a women does. I am not saying women are smarter always, we think different.

Does this make Me a bad, far out person? Not at all.

Does Me liking submissive men mean I like men with no backbone?

Nope you are wrong there also.

My slave, whom I am married to, is one of the feistiest fuckers I know , and if he was not I am pretty sure we would not be married.

However he knows that for us, Me being in control makes out life better, as it does for many people.

So now My question is, if your Goddess was born a full blown genetic women and she was a female supremest would your views be different?

I happen to think IMO your views are a little skewed due to the fact your Goddess is a transsexual and not born a natural women genetically.

Does that make you wrong for believing the way you do?

Should I be sarcastic?

Nope I applaud you for living the way you want, and I say that without sarcasm.

Good day Richard and thank for the interesting read.

I’m pretty much indifferent to gender genetics, identity and performance.

I wouldn’t engage in a relationship with a female supremacist anymore than I would with a male top who held some really foolish belief. I wouldn’t be able to respect the person regardless of gender qualities.

I wouldn’t engage in a relationship with a female supremacist anymore than I would with a male top who held some really foolish belief. Well put, Richard.

Does this make you a bad, far-out person? Not at all. Just ill-informed and a bit pompous. I’d be curious to see how your views (and those of your husband) change with life experience. I hope some of that experience includes a little reading beyond Elise Sutton.

BTW, I am also married to my submissive partner and have been in this lifestyle for over twenty years. Best to you.

Wow, I wish I got this kind of mail. It would make for such great fodder….

Some of my sites get tons of pro-female supremacy comments.

Only reason I did anything with this one is that it was an email from a guy wanting support that I can’t really give.