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I was looking for F/m artwork when I found Orgasm Denial.
Enforced chastity isn’t something for which I’m hungry. Maybe Alexandra and I will play with it at some point.
But the folks on Orgasm Denial were surprisingly - to me - genial. So I hung out there for a time and posted fairly regularly.
The last couple of days I’ve been visiting the House of Kink. The Dominas are likeable and sane. Though I think half of what I’ve posted is about how wonderful Alexandra is and how lucky I am to have found her.
As our relationship evolves I find myself steadily more disenchanted with all the F/m stereotypes. Sometimes I begin to feel that it isn’t merely rare but unique.
You’ll “make me wish” I was dead? Do you have a life yourself?
As much as it can thrill me when Alexandra laughs at me while she renders me nothing more than a whipped puppet I just don’t give a damn about “heartless Femdom bitches” who will do this and that.
So it is nice to find places where the women would rather talk about mixing kindness with cruelty.
There’s always been a fair amount of sane discussion on usenet but that has thinned out because of spam messages and web user ignorance.
I’ve likewise found a few decent general BDSM forums. But usually the number of people posting is too small to keep conversations flowing. I don’t have any bias against M/f relationships but reading about servicing a man’s cock gets old (for me, not for those involved).
Maybe I’ll find other sites worth mentioning and add them here. Or you can post pointers to forums I’ve missed (though I’ll be ruthless in removing pointers to pay sites).
She’ll be back in a few days and my interest in places outside my home will probably vanish.
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Have you checked out erotic humiliation? small but ok at times. Congrats on Her homecoming, I do hope you will have some interesting stories to share ;)
Posted by: Mistress V | May 26, 2005 9:06 PM
Erotic Humiliation? Took a quick look and it turned out I’d joined it. I’ll try to spend a little more time if I can though minutes are becoming precious commodities with my back out of whack and so much cleaning to be done.
Launching a successful forum is tough. That Orgasm Denial does so well I suspect has much to do with the nice but wicked women who spend a fair amount of time there. Or cornering the market of an obscure fetish. Miss Destiny’s (I think I have the name right) seems to almost own trampling online.
Some good ideas just don’t catch on. I couldn’t resist visiting the one called Less Than Human. Mostly bottoms talking to bottoms. Without enough interactions by dominants it simply isn’t rewarding enough for most people.
There’s one called Fetish Forums (I think) that has an almost ideal structure: separate forums devoted to just about every specialized fetish. But again little traffic though on and off some energetic submissive person tries to keep the conversations going.
I also have suspicions that in many instances F/m people and F/m people aren’t that excited about talking across the ‘divide’ as it were. That isn’t a problem on usenet but people don’t indulge in role-playing there. How I prefer it but probably not most people.
I’m hoping I will be able to write about what Alexandra and I do together. But I’m sure you know how it is when things go well: huge amounts of energy are used up. And when she takes me deep down I have a hard time remembering what happened.
Posted by: Richard | May 27, 2005 1:35 PM