What Dominant Women Look For
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I’m surprised I haven’t run across this page by Mistress Ren before.
Many submissive males, especially those online, seem to believe that all female Dominants are looking for a compliant, powerless submissive who will prostrate themselves 24 hours a day. These men mistakenly feel that the only way women will be interested in accepting them, as their submissive, is if they show their submission constantly and strongly. After all, a Domme seeks a partner who will never speak unless spoken to, never show his intellect, never look her in the eyes, and never, never, never wants to be treated as her equal. Right?
Wrong.
Of course, I can’t speak for every female Dominant - after all, there are those few who long to have a submissive who follows the example of my friendly internet suitor….but, for the most part, Dommes seek a partner who knows when to be a ‘submissive’ and when to be a ‘companion.’
A Primer For Male Submissives: What Female Dominants are REALLY Looking For
This is entry 500.
Comments
Five hundred, wow! Congratulations. Although I seldom post a comment, I like to read them very much. In spite of my age I don’t have much experience in BDSM and/or slavery. But I have those desires and your writings always give me something to think about. So, please, go on.
appy
Posted by: appy | December 28, 2005 12:58 PM
Thanks, always nice to know whether people enjoy what I’ve posted.
I see you on Ms. Christine’s newsletter every now and then.
Posted by: Richard | December 28, 2005 4:15 PM
i want to be a submissive
Posted by: zeid | July 12, 2006 8:03 AM
Zeid, just leaving a comment like that here won’t do you any good.
You need to convince a woman there is a reason she should feel any interest in you.
Posted by: Richard | July 12, 2006 3:27 PM
Dominant women want both. They want a brain but they also want a “Playful Doormat” who shares her vision of fantasy and reality and when the two are not the same adapt to hers. Real Dominant women are rare and they come in all flavors. Submission even for submissive males is a constant challenge. The submissive has to give thier submission for the Dominant to take it or it is not an exchange but a struggle. The deeper the two can go in this exchange the more benefits each has to gain. As with real Dominant Women being rare so are the sincere submissive males. This makes the online thing sometimes seem like sifting through sand to find your diamond. But it is not impossible.
Posted by: smoke | June 23, 2007 6:47 AM
Man I Never knew that! Hope I can find someone like that.
Posted by: Omer | April 14, 2008 1:48 PM