D/s and sleep
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Been almost four weeks since we've had any D/s play.
Partly as I noted earlier because I missed Alexandra's cues. An even more important factor is that she hasn't been sleeping well. This has her often arising hours after I've gone to work. By the time she's hitting her stride my mind is thinking about sleep.
It is easy to think that adding BDSM to a relationship is a path to easy ecstasy. But the quotidian problems of being merely mortal get in the way. As they can do with any relationship regardless of sexual orientation and style of lovemaking.
I still retain my faith that we are both bright enough and care for each other too much for this and our other problems to be solvable.
There are a couple of humbling bondage devices and a single tail whip we've yet to explore. Experiences that will come in due time.
