Unequal Dominant/Slavish Desires (A Follow-Up)

The estimable aspirant writes:

I need that connection to her. I'm uncomfortable writing that, but it is true. It nourishes me, and when I am feeling the need for nourishment, everything else seems like like an obstacle in the way of getting it.

Having earlier expressed fears of how different levels of desire for D/s play might damage our relationship I couldn't help but empathize. Though as a lifestyle slave aspirant's condition is much different, probably more stressful than mine.

One of the reasons I love Alexandra is that we talk with one another very well. Last night we had a good, clarifying conversation. I can't say that anything was resolved but hopefully through deeper mutual understanding everything will be.