Ethnicity, Race?
» Wishing Games
NB: the category is called Wishing Game for a reason: it is just a game. Sharing silly preferences (and maybe serious desires as well). Admitting to having a few narrowly defined aspirations - that you really can live without - isn’t a thought crime: just human.
Suggesting that one racial or ethnic type might be more desirable is a real no-no in contemporary culture. And with good reason.
But I’ll violate that taboo. Again, this is just a game.
My own biases are classically - stereotypically - 21st century American male: tall, blond, tan, a long mane of sweptback hair, high breasts. Yeah, next I’ll confess to breathing air.
(Actually my ideal has violently red hair and very green eyes but those women are mostly the stuff of fiction.)
But.
I remember running across a site of Japanese (I think, I’m not all that sharp when it comes to distinguishing among Asian facial typologies) Dominas.
With what cheerful serenity they looked at the men kneeling before him. How they smiled as they led him along on a leash. And how swiftly those same faces shifted to cold cruelty. Mostly I was drawn to the careless confidence of the former but including the latter left me stunned by the duality.
Last week I watched a cheap horror movie. The star was a Latina. The drop-dead gorgeous stereotype:
Heels, micro-skirt, bare, narrow waist, wonderfully ample hair: a beauty that knew her power to bend the strongest man with her erotic charisma. Which she did to her own heartless delight.
How could I not melt at the thought of her locking a chastity belt in place.
And who hasn’t felt a touch of awe at a proud, ramrod straight black woman as she walked down the street.
OK. I guess I don’t have a type.
But you might.
Even dominants must often harbor images of what the perfect submissive might look like. Granted that what they are watching for is that look of true submission.
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Being a writer, I always return to this piece titled “Pet Asian”…I feel bad for writing it, but I can give you the gist of it…
Suspended, his golden skin and small stature dangled softly above the raw, linen-less mattress. Spreader & Posture bar, Blindfold, and Open mouth gag tightly secured. I love the way he point his little toes.
“Who’s first?” Tom, my burly friend said already naked.
“Since you’re ready!” We laugh, all eight of us. We all have our plans. We just pray his body can take the trauma…
Posted by: BlackScorpian_VII | September 4, 2006 3:51 PM
I’m Korean, and my parents are from South Korea. Being a man of color, I must be honest that I find getting spanked by white women, especially sexy blondes and brunettes, to be the biggest turn-on. I’ve been spanked by an black woman before, and that was hot. One of my Korean ex-girlfriends gave a pretty hard spanking. I love Asian women, too, but getting spanked by a white blonde girl, finishing doggie style in her, while she screams, is my dream (which I’ve lived before).
Posted by: Peter Kim | September 5, 2006 11:31 PM
Is there any race of women who you either: 1. Enjoyed getting spanked by the most, or 2. Felt gave the hardest spankings? For me, 1. Curly-haired blondes, Irish redheads, and sexy black women. 2. Black girls gave the hardest spankings. An East-Indian woman gave me a hard-hot spanking. Blondes, especially busty blondes, usually give me hard spankings.
I love it!!
Posted by: Peter Kim | September 11, 2006 11:17 PM
Definately black women, they are more heavy handed and they have the fullest, roundest asses of all time! I love watching my girl’s ass ripple after swatting her…
Posted by: BlackScorpian_VII | September 13, 2006 7:49 PM
Sexy smooth skinned black women, East Indian, and Caucasian, too.
The East Indian and black spanked me so hard. Caucasian women have also given me hard spankings, too.
Posted by: Caucasian | September 13, 2006 10:35 PM
I think that there are a lot of wishfull thinking in this… I come from a country with very little racism if any. I have allways been very interested in black girls. Or more corectly in half black girls also called mulattos. As a slave I has naturally wanted to try being disciplined by such a girl. An I have been so twice. Both where among the hardest whippers I have met. an both experiences ranks as some of my best discipline scenes. Maybe it is a coincidence and has nothing to do with race, or maybe it is because I really adore and worship these girls. Cant help it they are so sexy…. and their asses!
Posted by: dave | October 28, 2006 7:20 AM
I envy you in living in a country mostly free of racism.
Wishful thinking - yes: the category is wishing games.
My Asian stereotype was just meant to be playful. To be seriously fixated on one race or ethnic group can be crippling (and often resented by those who are the object of desire).
But lighthearted fantasies shouldn’t be a problem.
Thanks.
Posted by: Richard | October 28, 2006 7:40 AM